by Marve SangalangHuman beings are actually attention seekers. They always want to be noticed, to be the star and to always have the spot light on them. A lot of acts and schemes are made just to catch others attention, impress other people and to be pleasing, but people tend to do nonsense and stupid things when they are depressed, have no one to turn to, and feel so down. The feeling of being neglected is the top most reason why people come up with weird and immature actions. Here are 3 stupid things people do when they feel neglected. The World full of only Me - You feel that you are all alone. You make yourself believe that no one cares for you and that all kinds of people are the same. You isolate yourself from others because you think that it is better to live alone. No hurts, no burdens, and fewer expectations. You also keep in mind that since you were neglected once, you will be neglected forever, whether by the people you love, your friends, and even the people you may encounter in the future. You have your own world and you don't want anybody else there. The show not to care act - Since being ignored is the most painful experience you may encounter, especially when the person who neglected you means a lot to you, you tend to be bitter. You act like you don't care; you act tough and pretend that they are nothing to you when in fact they really mean a lot. You also make them feel like you don't need them and that you are okay even if you're hurting inside, fooling yourself that you don't need those people in your life. You think that if you don't show any care and affection then that would be the time they finally notice and care for you. You put up walls and push people away. The Suicidal move - When a person feels depressed, he/she may want to end his/her life abruptly. Living in this world full of people who doesn't notice nor appreciate your presence is one of the worst things in life. You can't come up with a good and worthwhile decision; all you think about is that no one cares for you so there is no reason to live. You hurt yourself just to get the attention of others, this is the only reason you know to catch everyone’s' attention. These three things may seem funny or a foolish act to us, but this is crucial. People who suffer from feelings of neglect really needs a friend, brother, sister, family or just anyone who can make them feel okay.
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
Archives
October 2016
Categories |