By: Nicole ArzadonIn life, many things are said just like fairy tales and other fictional stories. But are these stories the same as what happens in reality?
Fairy tales, according to literature, are fiction. In short, they are not real. They’re just products of one’s imaginations. But what if fairy tales become real? Is it better to face the reality? Or stick with the fairy tales? Sometimes, I or even you, wish that life was a fairy tale. A life that can be restarted, a scene can be erased, thus a perfect life. Once upon a time’s, the princes kissing and marrying the princesses, happily ever after’s, happiness being achieved all at once, then the End. The story ends and can start again where and whenever we want to or even begin with another one. But did you know that living in reality is better? It’s an opinion of mine and is based generally. Why? Because in reality, we learn to face problems, challenges, hindrances and predicaments bravely and courageously. We learn to face our own strengths and weaknesses. We learn to love truly, sacrifice heartily, forgive and be forgiven sincerely, thus we experience different hardships and difficulties… that’s what life is all about. But why is it better than fairy tales if we need to face these craps and difficulties? Most of what is written is disadvantages, how come reality is better? Simple, it’s because reality has no rewinds nor fast forwards. It goes on as it is. By that, we learn to face it and overcome our fears and coward attitudes. We learn to give importance to time, to what is happening and most importantly, to life. We learn important lessons and we enjoy every moment that we spend. Life is totally twisted, true. But life is short, so we must make the most out of it and learn how to value it. Never base life on fairy tales and fictional stories, because everything starts on your own, from your knowledge and creative imaginations. Life is life. Realize your mistakes and give efforts in making them right. Live your life to the fullest. Take many pictures as you can, eat like there’s no tomorrow, laugh out loud, hang out with your friends, count the stars at night and love like you’ve never been hurt because life is too short to be wasted. That’s the reality of life. Enjoy every second of it. By: Luzmharie Solis Everyone needs a friend who will be their best buddy and family. Everyone also needs someone who can be there through thick and thin and make them laugh until they cry. A friend whom they can call anytime, someone that can boost one’s confidence, or make the workplace a happier place. One person can have a large circle of friends while others prefer to have just a close few. Whether you have a huge barkada or it’s just you and your bestie, here are a few roles that your close pal might be playing in your life: 1. The crazy Friend- This type of friend is the one who pushes you out to your comfort zone. They usually challenge you but will not let you do things on your own. These are the people who usually encourage you to experience new things for you to become fearless. These are the people who are very outgoing and are happy to be with. 2. The honest friend - As a person, you need to have an honest friend who can provide tough love when needed. They will tell you all the things that you should know, and will not tell a white lie just for you to become comfortable. 3. The Long term friend - This type of friend has known your flaws and past mistakes. We really need to have a friend that know you better than yourself and loves you as a whole. You will know that the friendship will last as he/she has been consistently that someone you can rely on. 4. The Gossipy Friend- After a long day of work or school, you need someone who can listen and entertain your rants or problems. This friend reduces stress and help you to get through with anything. 5. The Loyal Friend - This is the friend you tell your secrets to, and despite of your negative side she/he will not judge you the way others do. This friend will always be at your side at any circumstance that you’ll face. 6. The Friend that you admire - This is the type of a friend that can be your source of inspiration and motivation in being the best version of yourself. You always look up to them and you intend to follow their footsteps, but of course this friend should also guide you to your journey in creating yourself. A person might not be able to differentiate their friend from another. But in life, when one person becomes more mature, they realize that it really doesn’t matter how many friends you have but rather the value of friendships you have. By: Luzmharie Solis There is a difference between a boy and a man. Most of us consider a boy or a man through age. But truth is it’s all about the maturity. So how can you say if he is a boy or a man? Here are 10 ways to make sure: 1. A boy will ask you to hang out with him and have fun in club or in resto-bars. This means he just wants to go out with girls with no string attached. A man will ask you to a date to show his willingness and good intentions. He will also tell you about his plan between the two of you in the future. 2. A boy will call you mean, immature or any offensive nickname to justify that he is the winner in your fight. A man will fairly fight with you. He will never call you mean and will never even hurt you physically even when he is pushed. 3. A boy doesn't want to know or meet your friends because all he just wants is to be with you alone all the time. A man would love to hear stories about you and your friends and would be excited to meet them personally and know them more by himself. 4. A boy won't imagine to have a kids with you and even to get married and no one can change his mind. And if you encounter this kind of boy don't ever consider living with him because his not the right guy for you! A man will probably tell you his plan to have a family because you came to his life and you’re the reason why he has this plans in life. And if you find a man like this don’t ever waste the moment; don’t leave him and make sure you let him feel how much you love him. But, nowadays does this kind of man exist? You may answer this if you found a man like this. 5. A boy will care about the looks and curves of the body. And if you are having a bad day, he will make you feel that you’re ugly. Those are boys that only care about the looks. A man doesn't care about the look because he knows that everyone has bad days and good days. H can love you even when your sexy body changes and your beautiful face will have its wrinkles. A man would look inside not your physical appearance. 6. A boy will be afraid to meet your parents out of personal insecurities. A man will surely love to meet your parents because he knows that this is the wonderful chance to tell them how much he loves you and how much is he willing to compromise to make you happy. 7. A boy can’t handle your tantrums and this will be the start of the major fight. A man can understand your unpredictable attitude, and he can handle your changes of mood, and he will make you calm. 8. A boy will ignore the problem between the two of you because for him, it is just drama. He doesn't want to be tied, all he just wanted is to have fun. A man will face the problem even if it has too much drama. He will stick with you even you have a lot of problem to because he knows that he is committed with you and with your relationship. He wants to be with you until the end. 9. A boy doesn't want to have a serious conversation. All he just wants is to talk about things he finds fun. A man can handle a deep conversation. He loves to talk about plans for the future and his dreams for each of you. Tthis is one of the good advice to have a long term relationship. 10. A boy will tell you "I'm sorry" because he just wants to end the fight. He will say "I love you" just to make you feel that he is afraid to lose you, not because he knows the true meaning of the word. A man will tell you "I'm sorry" he doesn't mean to hurt you by his actions and even in words. He will say "I love you" because he means it. And he loves to say it to you because he wants you to feel how much he loves you every minute of his life. By:Luzmharie Solis Photo Courtesy: somaenergetics.com We always encounter stressful things. Do you have ideas on how to deal with it? I have here some tips on dealing or relieving yourself from stress. 1. Eat right This might help you to forget your problem or whatever causing stress to you. We feel satisfied when we eat foods that we want. But you must also avoid too much sweet foods and fatty food because it may disrupt your normal mood. Instead of eating sweet food and fatty food, you must eat healthy food which have high levels of Omega-3. 2. Listen to music It makes you relax when you are in a very stressful situation. If you encounter a stressful situation, take a break and calm yourself by listening a music. Listening to music can relax a person who has a stressful day. 3. Call a friend If your feeling stressed, call a friend. It is good to talk about your problem with someone you trust. Having a good relationship with your friend or love ones would really help when you find yourself in a problematic situation. While having a conversation about your problem and somebody gives you an uplifting statement, it may lose your stress. 4. Just laugh it out There is a saying that laughter is the best medicine. When you laugh, your mood improves, decreasing your stress. It can give you a positive output despite of a stressful day. 5. Have enough sleep We all know that having a lack of sleep can cause stress, but we also know stress can cause a lack of sleep. So you take enough sleep and have a relaxing time, you will have a peaceful mind in the morning. 6. Have an exercise You don’t need to go to a gym or a marathon just to have an exercise. A simple walk can be a good break before you go to work. It improves blood movement and releases endorphins that improve your mood. 7. Have a research or Learn about dealing a stress Stress is a part of our daily life that we must not take for granted. Having too much stress can have serious physical and mental health consequences. But the good thing is that there are tips on dealing a stress. By: Patricia Baguio Each one of us needs a person that we can call a friend and you are lucky if you have one. However, these days there are two kinds of friends, the real and the fake. How can you determine who the real are and the fake? These are just a guide for you to figure out if the friends you’re calling are real friends.
• YOU DON’T NEED TO IMPRESS THEM If you have a real friends, you don’t need to impress for them to like you, you don’t need to have new clothes, gadgets, and luxuries thing just to say that you are in with them, if you have this kind of friends, then better to distance yourself from them and find other people who don’t care about your branded clothes and everything. • KEEP YOUR SECRETS Real friends love you and value your friendship, so they can’t just tell the others your secrets because they know that when they will, you’ll be hurt and will never trust them again. If your friends don’t keep your secrets, then don’t consider them as real friends. • SUPPORT YOU ALL THE WAY Real friends will not just value your friendship, they will also support you all the way to your interests, passion, and dreams. If you have an opposite interest as they have, they will still support you as long as it makes you happy. • ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BACK In times of trouble, you can trust your real friends. They have them to save you from things that may harm you. Unlike those fake friends who will leave you alone when the crisis comes. • THEY HAVE A SHOULDER TO CRY ON If you’re going through something, true friends will see the true you behind your smiles, will make the first move to ask if what’s going on with you, then will never get tired listening to your sentiments, will tell you how stupid you are but then will hug you afterward. On the other hand, fake friends will believe that you’re happy and will just listen to your problems then they’ll just awkwardly tap your shoulder and change the topic. • FORGIVE YOU If conflicts come between you and your friends, they will not say anything that will break your personality as a person, and your secrets are still in the right hand. No matter how evil you are, how many times you break their trust and how long you didn’t talk for years, you will always be forgiven and have the special part in their hearts. Indeed, true friends will always forgive you, respect you and will treasure the friendship that you had. By: Patricia Baguio In life, people were diverse into two: the commuters and the people who have their own cars. If you have your own car, you are lucky because you don’t have to suffer waiting for a vacant cab or a jeepney, you don’t have to argue to some passengers just to get the vacant cab.
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