By: Marve SangalangTrying to get rid of someone who means a lot to you is the hardest thing to do in life, aside maybe from solving complicated quadratic equations or finding the value of "X". Why not this time find the value of "Y", find the value of Yourself. Don't waste your time focusing on someone that doesn't deserve your time. Breaking up with your partner may be painful but you can learn from that pain, just have a positive perspective. If you want to be wise and strong, learn to fight alone.
First step in moving on: Analyze the problem. They made you feel like they are really in love with you and made you believe that there is a happy ending, but they just left you without any reason and in just a blink of an eye, all of your memories turned to trash and shattered; they made you believe that forever does exist, full of sweet lies that made you fall deeply in love but ended up having none; and lastly, they promised that they will come back and that caused you to keep hanging on for too long while they are happy with someone else. These are some of the reasons why you're in a complicated situation right now. Love is like Mathematics, there are some things that just cannot be. So you must accept reality in order to be productive and can finally move on. Step 2: Find a formula in your problem. In Mathematics there are so many formulas and method to derive from the right answer, just like in moving on there are many ways to move on, you may choose the long method or the short method. Choose a formula wherein you feel comfortable and okay. In solving math problem you must have focus, so cut all your communication to the people who distracts you, annoys you and can lead you to a wrong answer. Focus on your goal which is finding the value of "Y". Step 3: Add variables Now that you have the formula, this time you need to add variables in real life or in your moving on process. Your variables are the people who make you smile, laugh so hard, treat you well and know your worth. Variables can be your best friend, friends, family, classmates or even foods that can lessen your loneliness and pain. These variables could really help you solve and find for the value of your "Y". Last step: Have the courage and patience to solve the equation. Remember that in every math problem you may encounter wrong answers, but that doesn't mean that you have to stop solving. Find another way, review your formulas and actions, and learn from all your mistakes so that next time you will be wise and confident enough. Just like in real life keep on solving, moving and fighting, set a goal and be balanced. Be bold and be brave.
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By: Patricia Baguio“Why can’t I hold you in the street, why can’t I kiss you in the dance floor? I wish that it could be like that, why can’t it be like that? ‘Cause I’m yours” These lines from the song, Secret Love Song by Little Mix and Jason Derulo are probably the most painful words you can say to someone you love. You can hear it in every corner of the street being sung by different individuals, the young and the young at hearts, an indication that the song captivated many.
The song can be interpreted in different ways; it can be for someone you shouldn’t be in a relationship with or for someone whom you can’t be in relationship with. Many speculates that the song is made for the LGBT people, but the songwriter, Jason Derulo, clarified it to everyone on an interview that it is not inspired by them, but by a girl he likes who already has a boyfriend. Although Derulo already denied it, the LGBT people still believe that it is made for them because the lyrics of the song really summed up the struggles that they are going through right now. Being in a relationship with someone you cannot be proud of, even you want to show world that you love him or her, you cannot, because you do not know if the relationship that you are fighting for is acceptable to public. Hence, the LGBT people send their gratitude to Derulo for producing the song that really speaks for them and Derulo also gave his thanks through social media for appreciating the song. By: Christelle MarambaHave you ever felt like you are just dreading going to a public place and would rather stay at home and do your own thing? Or you find your energy being drained just by being with other people? Maybe you are not shy, maybe you’re just introverted.
Introversion is not just about being shy. According to Carl Jung, it is about being more focused on inner thoughts, feelings, and moods rather than looking for outside stimulation. This means that you expend energy when you are with other people and you gain energy when you are alone, as if you recharge yourself. This means you can enjoy just being alone. Introverts tend to be more reserved, quiet, reflective and thoughtful. If you think you can relate to these characteristics, here are more signs of introversion:
Aside from these, here are also some sub-traits that can tell whether you or anyone you know might be an introvert:
As you can see, there are a lot of misconceptions about Introversion and we hope that you are enlightened, even if just a little bit, by this article. So do you think you are you an introvert? |
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